Category: Let's talk
So i was watching Mory. And on one of the pools they had the question was if you are in a relationship and you talk to someone online is that cheating or not?
so I wanna know what u guys think about it
It deppends what you talk about. If you talk about music, politicks, nature and general things like that it's not cheeting. But if two people have siber sex or phone sex with somebody else if they already have a partner i think it is cheeting.
But i would say that. It's not cheeting if you can tell to your partner about the other person and what you talk about. If they are ok with it is not cheeting. The cheeting starts when people start hiding the fact that they speak with somebody else. That's how i see it.
*agrees with Nikos!* It's all about what you do/say while talking to them. Their is flirting but if you cross that line, you are cheating in my oppinion.
Michelle
i don't really have much to add to this. just talking, in my opinion isn't cheating. it's what your talking about that is! it may not be cheating, but it's still wrong to um, say talk sex or yeah, take friendship a bit to far!
shea
Agrees with Nikos
agree with everyone.
If your just talking to someone online that's just fine, it's when your flerting, weather in jest or not then you start crosing lines if you ask me. And if your BF or GF can't take the fact you talk to other boys or girls online and is always at you about what you talk about, then I think that relaytionship has some problems that should be looked into.
agree with Nikos
I agree with everyone here. What kind of talking are we referring to? If it's all suggestive and flirty, then yeah, I think its cheating in heart, even if you never act physically. If you make just a friend, not a big deal. Online is sometimes easier to get into trouble, because people convince themselves its harmless, since they're not acting on it physically, but I think it's still selfish.
depends on what you're talking about, if you're talking about having phone sex, or asking for phone sex or telling each other what you'd doo to them if you were going out with them, then yes that's cheating, but if you're just talking about things that aren't of that nature then no that's totally fine, this is just my opinion,I know I could have just summed this up by saying i agree with the rest of the posters, but I just felt like stating my opinion. and I'm stating this as if the two people were already in a relationship with someone else and not that person they were talking to.
Why is flirting cheating? If I compliment a girl and say she has a nice voice on her audio profile, or something like that, how is that cheating? I guess I don't understand. I mean, I get the sex part, but saying "Hey, you sound cute...blah blah blah" doesn't seem like cheating to me. Guess I'm weird that way. LOL!
I don't think just light flirting or telling someone they sound cute is cheating. But actual cyber sex or phone sex is cheating in my opinion. If you are in the mood for sex, and you can't turn to your partner for that, then there is something wrong in your relationship. If you have a very open relationship where you both agree to say it's okay for the other person to do that kind of stuf, then I guess it's okay, but frankly, when I'm involved with someone I want more of a commitment and don't want to be told it's okay if I want to have phone sex with someone else. But when I'm not involved in a relationship, then anything goes.
Here here! I totally agree!
Its not talking, but what you are talking about...